Bob Dylan said there’s nothing so stable as change. Pre-Dylan philosopher Heraclitus put it this way:
The only thing that is constant is change.
Whether you like it and seek it, or hate it and run from it: everything always changes. Most change is out of our control. Consider the weather, someone else’s attitude, road conditions, home/car repairs, illness, accidents, and layoffs as some of the stuff in life we can’t change.
There is still a great portion of stuff we can.
In part one of this blog series on change I discussed why we resist change and challenged you to think about one area in yourself you’d like to change. Go back and reread it if you need to. You should have written down one thing. If your thing is “big” like these –
break it down into smaller, more defined short term goals.
If your desired change is to “get healthy” (good choice!) what are the smaller steps that lead to good health? Write them down and circle one.
Start with that. It’s good to have high aspirations, but don’t set the bar too high. Think of change as a muscle. In order for muscle growth you have to begin with a weight you can actually lift. You add on as tolerated, allowing the muscle to adapt to grow. If you start out high and hard, you will likely get injured or give up.
What it is it that you want to do? Define it. Imagine it. Put it in writing. Organize it. Gather the knowledge you need, enlist help, start equipping yourself with the tools to help you be successful.
You have now entered the action phase of change. I’ll talk more about action in part three.
Preparation is key to successful change. Know what you want, and educate yourself on how to get there. In between here and there establish clear, manageable steps.
Until we meet again for some action, here’s a little Dylan inspiration…
Gonna put my good foot forward and stop being influenced by fools.
Remember. You got this.