What makes us resist change? Why would we rather stick with a job we hate, stay in an abusive relationship, keep smoking despite illness, and endure unnecessary hardship rather than do something to make it better?
Why do we?
Is it fear of failure? Uncertainty of the unknown? Apathy?
It’s D. All of the above.
Change can be hard. It can also be easy. One thing is certain: change is inevitable.
If you don’t like something in your life, change it.
If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.
Are you good at waiting? Not me. I have been known to abandon my handful of stuff rather than stand in a long line at the grocery store. Redbox pains me. Even when I reserve online there is always a couple in front of me browsing and contemplating like it was a major decision. C’mon people – this is Redbox. Aren’t there only like two movies worth seeing?
Thank goodness for Amazon Prime.
As I write this I am waiting with more than fifty other women (yes I got up and counted) to get a mammogram. I wait to get it, then wait to have it read, then I usually get called back for more images. Wait again for second reading. Three hours later…I’m home.
Does this dress make me look fat? What do you think of my essay? How did I do? Did you like the cookies?
We all ask questions like these, but do we really want the truth no matter what? Do you want to know what “it” is?
Are you familiar with the old testament story of King David and Bathsheba? David not only committed adultery with her, but had her husband killed and then made her queen.
David’s advisor Nathan saw the evil in David’s actions and soon made him see it as well by telling David a parable about a rich man who stole from a poor one. David was livid that the rich man could be so heartless. Then Nathan dropped the bomb: you are the rich man.
Zombies are repulsive and terrifying. They have decaying flesh, disgusting teeth, and no social skills. But they can teach us how to be happy.
Happiness is defined as a mental or emotional state of well-being characterized by positive emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy.
The zombie has no emotions, so he is neither happy nor unhappy,
he just is.
He takes each day as it comes and doesn’t worry about tomorrow. If I could pick one key to being happy, it would be the zombies way of being fully present in the moment with no worries. If you can make that a habit, you can kiss discontent goodbye.
You can write a better than great blog post, but if you only get a handful of readers, are you ok with that? Of course not. The point of blogging is to share your opinions, experiences, and knowledge with the world.
With a potential 3 billion people audience and 150 million bloggers worldwide, getting people to read your content is a challenge.
It starts with an intriguing headline.
Ask a question. Solve a problem. State a claim. Make a list.
Your reader has clicked in, now you need to deliver what you promised.
Do you agree with Mark? So do I. Then why would you or I, or anyone else seek out people who belittle their ambitions?
That’s the five hundred and seven thousand dollar question. Maybe because you didn’t realize until now that a certain person was making you feel small. There are many passive-aggressive and other damaged individuals in our lives that pose as our friends.
How do you know if you have a poser verses a genuine friend?
How do you feel after you spend time with this person? Lifted up or crushed down? Posers use you to make themselves feel better. They don’t care about you because they are the center of the universe. Fake friends say things like,
Everyday I ask my self why do I bother with social media? Why am I on Twitter? I’m not a rockstar. Why do I write for LinkedIn? I can’t compete with the influencers. I am an amateur photographer with less than 20 followers on Instagram and have a no frills WordPress blog. I do everything the gurus tell me to do.
All the top social media blogs I read tell me where to find ideas for hot blogging content. So off I go browsing Amazon’s top sellers for my niche, check out Drudge, and see what’s trending on Twitter. Next stop: Copyblogger and time suck some more, and then I notice the clock has tick-tocked to dinner hour and I’ve got nothing written.
What is wrong with me? Do I have writer’s block? Am I a procrastinator? Or am I trying too hard and discouraged because I’m such a teensy fish in a multitudinous ocean.
Did you know you have a right to see your medical record? And if you find a mistake you can request it to be corrected, or if you disagree with something your provider noted, you also have a right to write your own note stating that.
So why do we feel like we are snooping when we steal a glance at our “chart”? It’s our record, our right. Or are we afraid of what we might find out?
Health Information Privacy rules of protection has been around since 1996. Along with the right to view your chart, you have the right to:
Frigid temps, overcast skies with no hint of sun for days in a row can make even the hardiest person feel gloomy. Don’t become a victim of the winter blues! I have already field tested these 10 interventions and stand behind my word: try one, or kick it up a notch and do them all! You’ll be surprised at how quickly your mood will brighten.
#Exercise: bundle up and take a walk. The hardest part is finding the oomph to get outside, but once you’re out it’s quite pleasant.